.However what Astrid doesn't recognize but is an honest truth that both Ortega as well as O'Hara-- who has two sons-- can easily attest to: The reality that your relationship along with your parents adjustments and progresses as you both age, and perhaps for the better. "Your world centers around [your kids] when they are actually children [and also] it's a lot job however charming," O'Hara mentions. "Eventually, you really miss that, given that then you can't receive all of them to perform anything you prefer all of them to do, considering that they begin creating their own minds, their very own viewpoints." And eventually, you wind up in the place O'Hara, whose sons are in their 20s as well as 30s, finds herself right now, capable to learn from her little ones. "They're merely such cool young fellas," she states. "I am actually not their buddy, yet I enjoy possessing conversations with all of them as well as understanding exactly how they think about life.".